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GNHPoemReview: “The Weight of Goodbye” — Opeyemi Ibitola on Love, Silence, and Letting Go

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Some heartbreaks don’t explode in public fights or dramatic farewells. They just… fade. A quiet drifting apart, the slow swell of silence until love feels like a stranger sitting across from you. In an era where people post “couple goals” on Instagram while secretly battling loneliness, Opeyemi Ibitola’s The Weight of Goodbye hits like a mirror we didn’t ask to look into.

This poem isn’t about betrayal or infidelity; it’s about something far more common today—love that dies because no one speaks, no one fights, no one listens.

The Weight of Goodbye

by Opeyemi Ibitola

We felt it,
the truth humming beneath our ribs,
yet fear stitched our hands together.
We clung to love
as if it alone could mend the cracks,
but silence swelled,
a river widening between us.
Our bond thinned,
hope shrinking into the dream
of waking in a home unbroken.

Then came the weight,
relentless, pressing every word.
I bent, I bent until my voice splintered,
but you stood unmoved.
What worth is love
that will not speak for me,
fight for me,
or bear the quarrels it creates?
So it ended,
not with thunder, not with mercy,
but with a quiet door closing
on promises once tender.

Still, I cradle the remnants:
the safety of your voice,
the fragile trust,
the rare belonging.
I only wish the goodbye
was lighter on the tongue,
that we might have remained as friends.
Yet if the path is mine again,
if the stars decree it,
destiny will gather us once more
where love learns to listen.

 

This poem stings because it’s too real. We’ve all seen relationships that die not from fire but from frost, the unanswered texts, the conversations avoided, the arguments swallowed until the silence becomes unbearable.

Opeyemi Ibitola captures this ache in lines like “a river widening between us” and “not with thunder, not with mercy, but with a quiet door closing.” That’s the heartbreak most people face today: not a stormy ending, but a slow suffocation.

What makes this piece powerful is its raw honesty. It doesn’t glamorise heartbreak, but it also doesn’t drown in bitterness. Instead, it whispers what so many secretly feel: I wish the goodbye was lighter, I wish we stayed friends, I still believe in love, maybe destiny will be kind next time.

It’s tender, painful, and beautifully human, the kind of poem you’ll screenshot, share, and read again when the night feels too heavy.

Opeyemi Ibitola is a Geology student at Federal University, Oye-Ekiti who finds escape in poetry and prose.
She writes about love, heartbreak, and the quiet truths we often leave unspoken.
Her words reflect a search for meaning in struggles and the beauty that lingers even in goodbye.

 

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  1. Ibitola Opeyemi

    August 27, 2025 at 9:56 pm

    This is beautiful and inspiring.

  2. Olaitan Motunrayo

    August 28, 2025 at 8:24 am

    Wow! This is so beautiful and captivating. It is absolutely beautiful and I love it.

  3. Olaitan Motunrayo

    August 28, 2025 at 8:25 am

    Wow! This is so beautiful and captivating. It is absolutely beautiful and I love it.
    God bless Opeyemi Ibitola!

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Olarewaju Backs Oyebanji in Court Amid Ekiti APC Legal Battle

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The All Progressives Congress (APC) candidate for Ekiti North Federal Constituency 2, Hon. Ibrahim Kunle Olarewaju, on consecutive days appeared at the Federal High Court in Abuja, throwing his weight behind Governor Biodun Oyebanji as legal disputes threaten the party’s internal stability ahead of the next electoral cycle.

Hon. Olarewaju, a lawyer, joined the Ekiti State Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice, Dayo Apata (SAN), during proceedings linked to suits filed by Bimbo Olawunmi and allies of Kayode Ojo. The cases challenge aspects of the party’s candidate selection process, raising fresh tensions within the APC in Ekiti State.

His presence in court comes at a critical point in his own political campaign, a move observers within the party interpret as a calculated show of loyalty and alignment with the governor’s political direction.

Speaking to associates after the court sitting, Hon. Olarewaju framed his decision as a defence of electoral integrity and party cohesion. He drew from his experience during the party primaries three years ago, where he contested outcomes he believed did not reflect the will of party members.

“This is about protecting the mandate of the people and ensuring that legal distractions do not derail the progress already underway in Ekiti,” he said.

Governor Oyebanji’s administration has anchored its agenda on continuity and economic expansion, with ongoing investments in infrastructure, agriculture, and education. Supporters argue that prolonged legal battles could slow the pace of these reforms.

Hon. Olarewaju has also intensified mobilisation efforts across Ido-Osi, Moba, and Ilejemeje local government areas, projecting a strong voter base for the APC in the constituency. Party insiders say his dual focus on grassroots engagement and high-level legal support reflects a broader strategy to consolidate influence ahead of the elections.

While the court is yet to deliver its ruling, the outcome of the suits could shape the APC’s internal dynamics in Ekiti and test the cohesion of its leading figures.

For now, Hon. Olarewaju’s courtroom presence signals more than routine party support, it underscores the stakes within Ekiti’s political landscape as alliances tighten and legal scrutiny deepens.

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Hon. Akinlayo Congratulates Oyebanji as Court Affirms APC Candidacy

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A member of the House of Representatives, Hon. Kolawole Davidson Akinlayo, has congratulated Governor Biodun Abayomi Oyebanji following a Federal High Court ruling affirming him as the All Progressives Congress (APC) candidate for the 2026 governorship election in Ekiti State.

Hon. Akinlayo, who represents Ekiti North Federal Constituency II, described the judgment as a clear endorsement of democratic order and party authority, stressing that it validates the APC’s right to determine its membership and candidates without external interference.

In a statement issued shortly after the ruling, the lawmaker said the decision has energised party members and residents across Moba, Ilejemeje, and Ido/Osi local government areas, who he noted have thrown their weight behind the governor’s leadership.

He said the court’s position strengthens confidence in Mr Oyebanji’s administration, which he credited for maintaining a focus on grassroots development and inclusive governance.

“This judgment affirms our collective belief in justice and reinforces the stability needed to sustain ongoing development across Ekiti,” Hon. Akinlayo said.

The federal lawmaker also called for unity within the APC, urging stakeholders and supporters to rally behind the governor as preparations for the 2026 election gather pace.

The court ruling, which settles lingering questions around the party’s ticket, places Mr Oyebanji in a stronger political position as he moves towards seeking a fresh mandate under the APC platform.

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Dr. Babatola Ayiti Joins APC in Ekiti, Backs Oyebanji Re-election Bid

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Dr. Babatola Ayiti Joins APC in Ekiti, Backs Oyebanji Re-election Bid

A United Kingdom-based academic and retired Ekiti civil servant, Dr. Samuel Babatola Ayiti, has formally joined the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Ijero Ekiti, declaring support for Governor Biodun Abayomi Oyebanji ahead of the June 20 governorship election.

Dr. Ayiti announced his membership on Monday during the APC ward meeting at Eyigbo Street, Ijero Ekiti Ward C, where party leaders and supporters received him into the fold.

Dr. Babatola Ayiti Joins APC in Ekiti, Backs Oyebanji Re-election Bid

Dr. Babatola Ayiti Joins APC in Ekiti, Backs Oyebanji Re-election Bid

Speaking at the gathering, he praised the leadership of Governor Oyebanji and President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, urging party members to close ranks and intensify mobilisation efforts across communities. He stressed that unity at the grassroots would determine the party’s performance at the polls.

“We must stay committed and deliver our ward convincingly,” he said, calling on members to expand outreach and consolidate support within their neighbourhoods.

Dr. Ayiti said his delayed formal entry into partisan politics stemmed from restrictions tied to his years in the civil service. Now retired, he described his decision as timely and deliberate.

“This is the right moment to fully align with what I believe in,” he said, adding that he had consistently supported the APC during previous elections.

Party officials, led by ward chairman, Mrs.  Ade Babalogbon, described his defection as a strategic gain for the party in Ijero Ekiti. They expressed confidence that his experience and network would strengthen ongoing grassroots mobilisation ahead of the election.

The meeting ended with a formal welcome and renewed calls for unity, as Dr. Ayiti pledged to play an active role in the party’s local campaign structure.

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